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I have been interested in religious cults and polygamy for quite some time. After the recent media coverage on the Warren Jeffs case I started to look on Youtube for documentaries about Polygamous Communities in the US. After watching some I became outraged that this is going in America and there seems to be little concern for these poor women and children. What I found even more disturbing was that this was the ONLY group I could find that provides support for these victims. In one of the documentaries they mentioned a group call Tapestry Against Polygamy, but I could not find any information on this group other than an article that stated they had never sought non-profit status. Lisa Rosenkranz Indiana - Wednesday, August 10, 2011 2:24 PM (MDT) I've just finished reading 'stolen innocence' and I have to say Elissa's story evoked some very painful memories, but that her courage, and what she has achieved at such a young age, is an inspiration. I too was married in an arranged marriage, in a cult. I left my family, my home, and my country to travel half way round the world to a new country, where I didn't speak the language, to begin married life with a man I had met for 3 days during a cult retreat in India a few months earlier (the marriage had already occured in India). Unlike Elissa I was not underage (just), it was not a polygamous sect, and the marriage was at my request. The differences pretty much end there; women were taught to obey their husbands, although husbands were supposed to treat their wives with love and respect (but this was never verified and complaints rarely resulted in the man being punished), the cult was (is) headed up by a female guru who was (is) venerated as god on Earth, woshipped in lavish ceremonies and bestowed with countless expensive gifts, her tapes were listened to constantly, children were sent to boarding schools run by the cult, not just interstate but in different countries, as young as 3 years of age, to "protect" them from the "evil influences" of the outside world. The words of the guru were unquestionable truths, the ideal was for women to marry, become good wives and mothers, raise good children who would carry on the faith and work of the guru. Like Elissa, I endured countless episodes of rape from my husband, starting when I was pregnant with our first child. Once subjected to that humiliation, it was difficult to ever feel consentual about sex with my husband again. Her (your - if you read this Elissa) descriptions of needing to stay awake to make sure she (you) wasn't violated, of knowing what was coming every time the bedroom door was shut, of just wanting it over, of learning to dissociate while it happened, of being treated as property and nothing more than a body (in fact it often felt like nothing more than an object that happened to have a convenient hole in it, not even really a body) all resonated deeply. I still have trouble sleeping to this day, 20+ years on... it's a reflex response; as soon as I fall asleep my brain wakes me up in an absolute panic, often screaming... After having three children with this man I knew I would never have another by him, although my children are the best thing that has ever happened to me and by far the best part of my life. They have grown into beautiful young men now, and I couldn't be prouder of each and every one of them. Despite it having become an absolutley loveless marriage, I stayed in it for another 6 years, with the abuse continuing all of that time. Throughout the 13 year marriage, I meditated, prayed for strength and for the guru to help my husband change his ways, and "stayed sweet"; that is such an apt description... uncanny in how much it rings true for me. When I finally, with the help of my family, summoned my courage to take my children and leave, I was ordered to return by the guru. When I wrote a letter explaining about the abuse, hesitant because despite the atrocities I didn't want to see my husband punished, and was sure he would be, the response I received via the "uncle" - our national leader - was that the guru had listened to only part of the first page of my letter, responded "so what, all men are like that, tell her to return to her husband or hand the children over and never see them again". My world crumbled in the instant the "uncle" relayed that message, because I knew then that for 17 years, all of my adult life, I had been living brainwashed in a cult that did not follow or enforce its own doctrines of love and respect. Everything I had believed in and defended for all of my adult life evaporated. I was "made dead" to the other members of the cult; the only contact allowed was for them to attempt to convince me to return, that I was damning myslef and my children by leaving, that I had to repent. I caved under the pressure, not returning to the cult, but succumbing to severe depression and post traumatic stress disorder. I was 32 years old, I had the support of a loving family who suported me financially, I had been raised in a normal family until the age of 17, and still I crumbled under the pressures. I eventually went to the police to make a statement, but was told it was a pointless exercise, that it would be impossible to prove any offence had occured. How Elissa had the fortitude and courage to accomplish what she has, at such a tender age, is such a testimony to her as a strong woman, and is quite frankly beyond comprehension... except that she is obviously a soul blessed with amazing strength. My heart goes out to her and Lamont, and I am so happy for them both that they have at least had each other, and found the true love they deserve... I want to wish them all the best for the future... I'm not in a position to help much financially, but I hope the little I can give will be useful. I would also like to warn others against the cult I was a part of; it goes by the name of Sahaja Yoga, or Vishwa Nirmala Dharma, and although no where near as big as FLDS, they are a world-wide organisation, with all the issues of marital abuse, child abuse described by Elissa. Because it fronts as "normal", in the sense that members remain a part of mainstream society, don't dress very differently etc, it is very easy for people to be taken in at first, as the more extreme beliefs are only revealed gradually, as new initiates are deemed ready to have the truths revealed to them. Elissa, please know that your story has reached the other side of the world and inspires all who hear it. I imagine you have thousands who contact you wanting to communicate with you personally, and would not place an additional request on you, but would be honored if you wish to do so. If there are young girls in similar situations near me in Australia, I am happy to do what I can to help them escape. If there is anything I can do to help your efforts over there, from the other side of the world, I would gladly do so. I am also involved with another charitable fund; you may wish to look at it; children of phoenix. An internet abuse survivor board was also particularly useful to me in the early days, and has been again at times since... pandora'a aquarium, or pandys.org; US-based. I don't wish my email address to be made public but am happy to be put in touch with anyone wishing to communicate with me. Wishing you love and peace, will forward a small donation, Kathy Australia - Wednesday, May 12, 2010 7:05 AM (MDT) I have just finished reading the courageous story of Carolyn Jessop. I am outraged that I live in a country where this is happening! About a year ago I read a book called "A thousand Splendid Suns" by Khaled Hosseini. This book was also about women and children violated in unspeakable ways. Living in conditions I cannot begin to fathom... However the book was based in Afghanistan. My question is this... How are we fighting a war across the world with such tenacity trying to give people in other countries freedom and protection but are neglecting the women and children in the same situations in our own country??? I hope that Carolyn Jessop wakes up daily to the peace and love she has always deserved!! Amber USA - Thursday, October 8, 2009 9:54 AM (MDT) Last night saw the TV show on WE network (Secret lives of Women) about the polygamy situation in Az, and Utah. Found it quite interesting. It is really a shame that the Fed. Gov. cannot stop that. Feel sorry for the women and children in the Fundamental "Mormon" church that would like to escape but are unable to do so or lack the knowledge of how to do so. Lois Anderson Seymour, Indiana USA - Wednesday, September 2, 2009 9:10 AM (MDT) Last night my old roommate and I got together and she was telling me about this youtube documentary on polygamy. We talked about how much it broke our hearts to know that young girls are being pressured into underage plural marriages with older men, incestuous situations and suffering rampant abuses and a slow wearing down of the spirit. We decided to take action, so I went in search of organizations that were fighting the crimes in these "communities" and supporting people brave enough to run away, and I came across this site. It is disturbing how hard it was to find any organizations that want to help these young people who are suffering so much right here in our own country, but we are going to try to get some people involved and do whatever we can to help. We can't keep standing by while young girls are brainwashed into hurtful situations or sold into sexual slavery and young boys are abandoned on the street. Any advice on what we can do or anyone wishing to help may contact me at takawiri2@yahoo.com. Keep up the fight- we must stop the cycle!! LJ from Sacramento, CA USA - Tuesday, August 4, 2009, 10:40 AM (MDT) I finished reading Stolen Innocence today after a friend recommended your book. Elissa Wall, you are an inspiration and I will remember your story forever. I want you to know that your story is being told and discussed among people on the other side of the world. Creating awareness of issues such as the child abuse, underage marriages and the brainwashing that does occur in a closed society like the polygamous sect you and many others are/ were once apart of is worth the fight. Thank you. Kind Regards, Pia - Australia Australia - Saturday, June 27, 2009 7:41 AM (MDT) I have just finished reading Escape by Carolyn Jessop and Church of Lies by Flora Jessop. I am incredulous and angry that the states of Utah, Arizona and Texas are allowing this practice of child abuse and domestic violence to continue. I have zero issue with polygamy IF all parties are ADULTS and are making the choice to live this lifestyle--God can deal with the judgment that is not my role. I do have a HUGE issue with child abuse, sexual abuse, wives being abused by sister wives and abusive husbands. These poor women and children of the FLDS are living in modern day slavery and I find it unreal that it is allowed to continue. I will be writing to every government official in my state (Texas) about this issue. I cannot afford to donate money at this time but will pray for these women and children. My God does not find this acceptable and these men will be dealt with by Him. Please do not post my email address. God Bless. Jeri Texas USA - Sunday, March 22, 2009 at 2:49 AM (MDT) Greetings – I have just finished reading Carolyn Jessop’s book (I could not put the book down). What an amazing woman! I feel that God has truly blessed her by giving her the courage and determination to enlighten us all on the horrors of what goes on "behind closed doors" in a polygamist cult. I felt her pain when her daughter Betty made the decision to go back – (I am a mother of 2 and a grandmother of 1). I admire her spirit and wish her and her children much success and love in their lives. I believe the work you are all doing is so important, I wish you all the best in your endeavours God Bless, Nicola – South Africa South Africa - Tuesday, March 3, 2009 at 2:07 AM (MDT) I just want to say good luck to everyone who is helping to keep this organization going. I am a senior in high school, in Washington, DC, and I have just completed a project on polygamy. I felt that this project was important for me to do, because I wanted people to know about problems that affected people in other places of the United States. In about three weeks I will be doing a presentation to a group of people; making them aware of what is going on, and what they can do to help. I will also be collecting donations, in which I will send to the HOPE organization. If there are any pamphlets or other resources that you have available for me to use for my presentation, I would be more than grateful if you would send them to me. I can be reached on my e-mail: [REDACTED] Once again good luck. Regards, Raven USA - Wednesday, February 18, 2009 at 8:25 AM (MDT) I just finished reading "Stolen Innocence" I just want to tell Elissa and all the others like her you go girl!!! I too was raised in a restrictive patriarchal religion they have a website for abuses in that religion called WINGS http://www.wingsfortruth.info/ As I was reading Elissa's book I kept thinking that is exactly how I felt even tho my marriage wasn't arranged I was so innocent that my ex was able to abuse and take advantage of me because he knew that I believed that divorce was a sin, so he essentially used my beliefs to abuse me and our children. I also felt shame as I read because like Elissa's mom I felt paralyzed and did not protect my children as much as I should have, or in the manner that I would today now that my thinking is clear and I am free from all that belief in a legalistic religion. I know now that true happiness comes from a personal relationship with God that can only occur in our hearts, and only when we have love and give love, and it does not exist in the legalisms like dress, hairdo, no TV, no make up, no jewelry, the woman in subjection to the man etc... My ex did not have love nor did he give love like Allen he pretended to love but he does not know what love is and he will never know! I cannot contribute money at this time, but I will definitely send prayers for Elissa's mission and for those with the courage to leave. Blessings and Love, Misty USA - Thursday, September 18, 2008 at 8:35 PM (MDT) Hello, I justed wanted to wish Carolyn Jessop Good Luck in the rest of her life as well as her children. I hope that she is happy and her children are happy as well. I don't have enough money to donate but i do have prayers to say for all involved. I just finished reading the book Escape. All i have to say is GOD BLESS Lisa USA - Thursday, July 17, 2008 at 1:29 PM (MDT) Thank you for your informative website. I am writing in regard to the book by Elissa Wall, which I have just finished reading for the third time. With each reading comes a new and more angered understanding of just how the women of the FLDS have been treated, and continue to live under these circumstances. I myself am a state officer for the Arkansas Federation of Business and Professional Women's Organization, and would love to contact Elissa to offer words of encouragement, as our organization is all about "women helping women". If anyone has an email address where I may contact her, please email me at the address listed below. My heart goes out to her and her beautiful family, and the message of her strength and faith needs to be heard by any woman in a similar instance. Thank you, Elissa, for standing up for what you believe in...and for having the courage to do what you had to do to finally gain your freedom in life and in love. God bless you, as I know He will continue to do! Ann Breckenridge AR/BPW Recording Secretary 2008-09 Newport, Arkansas anndoodle@yahoo.com USA - Friday, July 11, 2008 at 11:01 PM (MDT) I have recently finished Elissa Wall's shattering tale of abuse, manipulation and sheer hell. For two days now my mind has raced with anger and rage. It was a terrible crime, in the name of God, of all things! To Elissa and all those who CHOSE to leave: YOU ARE ARE TRULY THE VERY STRONGEST PEOPLE ON GOD'S EARTH! Your courage is astounding! Your bravery cannot not ever be explained in words. I will be making a donation...and pray that someday change will come and help will arrive. I'm not condemning anyone's religion, but Warren Jeffs took it to plain old selfishness. God Bless you all, and I pray for those who just are still too afraid to see. Deneice Prince Gillsville, GA USA - Friday, June 27, 2008 at 1:26 PM (MDT) I am currently reading Stolen Innocence by Elissa Wall. (I have read Escape, Shattered dreams, His favorite Wife among many others.) Every time I read one of these accounts by women who have endured such tragedy, injustice and heartache my heart goes out to them. I am inspired by their courage and fortitude to stand up and say "NO MORE". I am glad they have chosen to share their stories. I wish them every imaginable happiness. They deserve it. Pamela Ryan Boston, MA USA - Monday, June 23, 2008 at 5:05 PM (MDT) I am sending you a donation today. It's just crazy that all this oppression and abuse of women and children and young men goes on in our country today. Keep up the good work! PS.  Everyone should consider reading The 19th Wife written in 1875 by Ann Eliza Young, one of Brigham Young's wives, who escaped and divorced him. What an expose of the early of days of polygamy! Carolyn K. in San Diego USA - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 12:09 AM (MDT) Hi, I have watched the mess in Texas unfold as the court took the children out of the compound there, and I was happy they did that. They have let them all go back to the same home as before which I believe is a big mistake. They seemed to have no toys that I could see in the photos of the inside of a house that was on the news. There was nothing personal of any of the kids in the rooms, and the dining room looked like one in an institution rather then a home. The women said the children love to work and race to get up at 4:30 AM or so to work first then school then more work. When are they allowed to be children? This is not the most disturbing part though the looks on the women's faces, the parroting the same phrases, and looking completely emotionless was the most disturbing. The one woman who tried to cry looked like it was forced for the cameras they all seem to believe they have to repeat the same words as the others and not show emotion or differences in themselves.I believe they are brainwashed or something close to it. I am worried for the women and the children both and hope the courts can do something about it, but now that Texas has let it go almost will Utah or Arizona do anything about this terrible tragedy and get the ones free that wish to be able to leave and help them understand they can leave with help from others? I have read the books Escape by Carolyn Jessop and Stolen Innocence by Elissa Wall and When Men Become Gods I forget who that one was by and have it loaned out to a friend to read now. I want to say I admire you all for escaping and would like to see if I can help a little if possible. Can you tell me if Teressa Wall has her children or if help is still needed to do that and if that case is still ongoing? Nobody should be punished like this for doing what is right and testifying against Warren Jeffs. He is an evil man who abuses children by forcing marriage on underage children. Thanks for any help on finding out if Teressa has her children or the fight is ongoing for that? Also is there anything we can do to help besides praying and donations? Anything I can do to help I wish there was something we could all do. Priscilla leevis11@verizon.net USA - Monday, June 16, 2008 at 11:01 AM (MDT) I would like both Teressa and Elissa Wall to know that, while my heart breaks for what they've gone through, I am very proud of them for speaking out against Warren Jeffs. They are both very courages young women who deserve the best of what life has to offer and Teressa does not deserve to be punished for trying to help her sister. I hope with all my heart that her children are returned to promptly returned to her and that, together with Elissa, they are able to build a new, better life for themselves. They have my full support! Also, I would like to thank The Hope Organization for helping these two young women, as well as other young victims of abuse. You guys are a wonderful example of what good things can happen when people get together and show they care, and have been a wonderful inspiration to me to get involved in ending abuse. Thanks! Sincerely, Cara Chan USA - Friday, June 13, 2008 at 9:57 PM (MDT) Have been aware of the Colorado City dynamics since 1976. After reading Carolyn Jessop's book, several memories have returned. The destruction of the public school system and the aftermath that followed under the divisive leadership of Warren Jeffs was sadly observed by those of us who were attuned to the machinations of FLDS leadership. Our thoughts are with those children and adults who are able to complete their education. Hopefully others, who dream to do the same, will be allowed to do so. I am not a resident of Colorado City, nor a relative of anyone living in that community. Julie Powers USA - Friday, June 13, 2008 at 5:45 PM (MDT) I just finished reading Carolyn Jessop's book and am saddened, outraged and disgusted that this treatment of women and children persists in our great United States of America. Where are the feminist groups in this country to protest this horrific treatment? They're more concerned with who can play golf at Augusta. Very sad! Please continue the fight against this brainwashing and assist those who have nowhere else to turn. S. McAdams Birmingham, Alabama USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 at 5:57 AM (MDT) My friend Karen Smith born in Sydney Australia, became one of the "wives" of a Joseph Smith of Salt Lake City after 1968 or so.......last heard of about 1975 while she was working in a bookstore to support her family. I have wondered ever since what became of Karen - she would be about 64/65 now and may be part of the Hildale group or still in SLC. If anyone knows of an ex-Aussie (she adopted an American accent as she loved the country, and was very soft-spoken), please contact this Guestbook to pass any message. Thanks, Laurane USA - Sunday, June 8, 2008 at 8:43 PM (MDT) I am a 20 year old girl from a small suburb of St. Louis, Missouri. I read Elissa Walls, Stolen Innocence just last week and I have much praise for that girl! She made the ultimate risk and left the FLDS, She kept her head high and told her story to a jury of strangers with the man she most feared sitting only feet from her, And to me the bravest thing she could have done by far was write and publish it so millions could hear her story. Well Mrs. Walls I am one of those millions and I just want you to know that us Missouri girls have your back. Who knows what can be accomplished if I get a few of my girlfriends to read Stolen Innocence?! Keep strong and do not quit fighting. Megan E. Broderick USA - Thursday, May 29, 2008 at 12:37 AM (MDT) I have just finished reading Escape. I live in Texas and my parent's ranch is 45 miles from the YFZ compound. I have watched and read about the raid and can only say thank goodness the State of Texas is trying to do something to help the children and mothers that were living in the compound. I now understand after reading Carolyn's book, how a woman can allow these terrible things to happen to their children and themselves. It is hard to understand how something this terrible is allowed to happen in the United States. I admire Carolyn and being a mother myself am amazed at how she has overcome the adversity in her life and to have the guts to continue to speak out about this culture. You go girl! Sheila Howard USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 12:58 PM (MDT) I hope you can bring this to the attention of the news media, its just a demonstration that FLDS couples think they can lie just to avoid "uncomfortable" questions. A couple that has been giving interviews, Rulon and Lorene Keates, talk about their children, 5 boys and 1 girl, and the anguish they have felt about having them torn away by the wicked CPS. However this same couple lies in another interview saying they have no daughter ONLY BOYS to avoid answering a question about underage marriage. The interview was on the TODAY Show on May 12, its right near the middle and when asked about underage marriage Rulon Keates with his wife, Lorene Keates, sitting next to him states that the question doesnt apply to him because he has all boys. (lame answer isnt it?) heres the link: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/24575095#24577612 However on a dateline interview THE SAME COUPLE, Rulon and Lorene Keates talk about their DAUGHTER, who is VERY ATTATCHED to her mother. Heres the link to that interview: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwKbz_l3kTE In my mind, the fact that this guy had to LIE and say he had only boys to avoid answering the question really suggests that they have something to hide. Thanks. Christina Hanley USA - Saturday, May 17, 2008 at 11:48 AM (MDT) I have been following the recent events of the FLDS custody case. I came from a similar religious background where molestation of young females was tolerated and we had long hair and wore the long dresses, although the circumstances were not as extreme as those of the FLDS. I am completely outraged that these practices have been allowed to continue within our country that funds a military that is suppose to fight for our freedom. I am interested in knowing what I can do to help. Jillian Decker USA - Monday, April 21, 2008 at 8:53 PM (MDT) I am sickened by what is happening to Children in Texas and Colorado. We need to step up and take resposibility for these kids. This is not right. ALL these people who are helping these woman and children need to find places for all these kids. Kristin Hurley Rochester, NY USA - Monday, April 21, 2008 at 8:49 AM (MDT) I am disgusted and horrified at what is happening in these communities. My question is: why aren't the states charging the men with polygamy, statutory rape, welfare fraud and pedophiliac acts? Why are judges turning over kids to people who are not even their parents? I guess I am more stunned at the state government's response, and lack thereof, than I am by the cult's practises. Why aren't the women protected by the constitution as well? I ma very very curious about the state politics that allow this to continue. I am guessing it has to do with money somewhere! Thanks. Juna Pottschmidt USA - Thursday, April 10, 2008 at 11:48 PM (MDT) Hello, I have just read Carolyn Jessops Book "Escape". It is a shocking story and was, at times sickening to read, so, I can only try to comprehend just how bad it must have been to live it! To Carolyn, you are only a few years older then me, and I believe you are the most amazing women and I wish you all the best for your future and your childrens future and I hope that little Harrison is continouing to improve. I am glad you were able to get free! What you and others in the FLDS had/have to go through is inhumane and I do hope something is done about it and that all the victims will find freedom and happiness. Kerstin UK - Sunday, March 30, 2008 at 2:50:48 (MDT) The Hope Org, I am from South Africa and have just read the book Escape. The story of Carolyn Jessop. This was such a shoking story that I wanted to know what happend to Warren Jeffs. And would also like to know what is happening with her former husband Merril and the whole comunity. So I searched Google and came upon this website. I will be praying for you and hope that more woman (and I suppose men) will escape from this cult. For me this was the first time I ever heard about FLDS. For a person living in a third world country to imagine this happening in a first world county I could not believe this. I will pray for you. Regards Elmari Potgieter Paarl South Africa - Friday, March 14, 2008 at 17:02:19 +0200 (MDT) I have just finished reading Carolyn Jessop's book Escape ... As an Australian I find it very sad and somewhat unbelievable that this could go on in one of the most developed countries in the world. As a nation America talks about fighting for freedom and justice but for these women and children they have neither, I only hope and pray that your Government see's the light and assist both your organisation and others like your's who are trying to help these people. Nat Sing Australia - Saturday, March 8, 2008 at 20:45:24 +1100 (MDT) Please pass this link along. I'm trying my best to expose this church (the United Latter-day Church of Jesus Christ), but I haven't had much luck. Please copy and paste anything you feel worthy enough to pass along. http://utahpolygamy.blogspot.com This group practices a large amount of incest and marrying children and is kind of a mixture between the Kingston group in Salt Lake and the FLDS Church in CC, AZ. Thanks, Sean Kingston Ex-member of the ULDC USA - Saturday, February 16, 2008 at 17:03:02 (EST) Why don't you stand up for what is RIGHT? I was searching the 'net trying to find some sites that would let me help women and children leave FDLS and imagine the distain I felt when clicking on an article that your site supposedly reported on, but has pulled because of threat of litigation. YOUR silence promotes these child molesters. I would not want to be you when God looks at you someday and asks "What did YOU do for the least of your bretheren?" I pray God changes your heart. Angelin USA - Thursday, February 7, 2008 at 16:51:10 (EST) I am a mother of four and extremely blessed with one wonderful husband. The other day I received the book Escape by Carolyn Jessop with Laura Palmer and could not believe what I was reading. It was a book I could not put down. I'm in total shock and disbelieve of what is taking place both in USA and Canada. I must live a very sheltered life but didn't think I had. My heart goes out to all those mothers who are demoralized and abused. Their children who are or were extremely grossly treated and all those lost boys who have no where to turn after being to told to leave. I have never been so outraged. I am at a loss of how human beings treat other human beings like these people have been. What in the world is going on and how can anybody just sit by and let this happen? To all those brave women who were able to get out sometimes not with all your children but you have saved those that you did get out, my heart goes out to you. I wish that I was a wealthy woman to help support in your time of need but the best I can do is just let you know more people will become aware of this disgrace to women and children and become stronger in helping to disban this unspeakable way of life. Anita Canada - Friday, February 1, 2008 at 11:11:07 (EST) I am in the middle of reading Escape and am totally fascinated. Even if someone could write fiction that is this captivating, publishers would probably decline it for content. I have always heard things about the FLDS cult, but had no idea how bad things are. My sincerest congratulations to Carolyn Jessop and I pray (I am part of a very mainstream Prodestant religion!) that more women will be able to escape and that someday the cult will disband. Jennifer Hankey St. Louis MO USA - Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 11:53:44 (EST) To whom it may concern... I have watched your site with great interest for a number of years, one of the greatest modern day tradgedies in the United States today is the continuing practice of Polygamy and what amounts to Child Rape. I have been touched very deeply by your works and the writing on this site. I was disgusted to read about the actions of the Salt Lake Tribune, the reporter that you speak of I believe would be Brooke Adams? I have corresponded with her on numerous times asking why she almost takes a slight pro-polygamist stance, she has derided me each and every time as "I am reporting news as the news is." She is a nasty human being that has no time for other peoples opinions if they differ from hers, its sad to see something like this happening in the modern age, she might not like what other people say on your site, but she only hurts herself by forcing you to remove her stuff. I keep a blog on blogger called "Behind the Zion Curtain" which is about life in Utah, but specifically with targets towards the fundamentalists that are destroying so many lives, with your permission I would like to link to your site from time to time to try and get the word out about this hated practice. If there is anything else I can do, PLEASE let me know, its time to bring this horrible practice to an end once and for all. Sincerely, James A. Olsen USA - Friday, January 4, 2008 at 09:05:26 (EST) Dear Friends, The Salt Lake Tribune shows its pro polygamy side by threatening to sue the human rights groups Hope for the Child Brides for posting SL Trib news articles on its web site. Hope for the Child Brides offers support to those leaving polygamy and educates the public on the human rights abuses within these organizations. Many of the articles in question were written by Brooke Adams. However, when I viewed the Pro Polygamy web site called Principle Voices many articles by Ms. Adams from the SL Trib were posted. http://www.principlevoices.org/index.php?topic=YouthFamilyRally From this action, it would appear that Ms. Adams and the SL Trib are working against the victims of polygamy in American and for those promoting polygamy. They have lost their objectivity, as if Brooke Adams ever had any. Lorna ABUSE IS A CRIME NOT A RELIGION USA - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 at 18:54:07 (EST) I just finished Carolyn's book. I am in awe of her strength and courage. Thank you for providing help to those in similiar situations! Amber - Salt Lake City USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 at 22:48:34 (EST) This is the most extreme case of brutality I can ever imagine being perpetrated on women and children - and animals in the United States of America, and gone unchecked for so long. Please tell me the State of Arizona is monitoring this obscene group, or that they have stopped some of this. May Warren Jeffs rot in Hell.! Cydne Papworth USA - Friday, December 28, 2007 at 16:48:38 (EST) I was captivated by Carolyn Jessop's book. The atrocities spotlighted in this book are crimes, and authorities need to approach them with the same vigor they would with any other crime family. FBI, stand up and be accountable. If nothing else, minors are being transported over state lines for immoral purposes. The organizations supporting escape and recovery need to be strengthened and well funded. As in many other situations in other states, social workers fall short either by chance, choice, or state guidelines. The recovery of these damaged young people is a long-term and specialized effort. They need help to recover from the isolation in their former community and the isolation in their escape circumstances. They will require years of therapy, education, and socialization. Sadly, the pull of the familiar will reclaim some of them. Warren Jeffs, that twisted Hitler wannabe, reaffirms the old adage, "Absolute power corrupts absolutely." Sandra USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 at 12:33:52 (EST) Greetings to all survivors and well wishers. I have just finished reading Carolyn Jessop book and felt I couldn't put it down. She was very brave and extremely smart. I hope she will continue to do well in the future and her children will find much happiness. I wished she added more to her book though. Did she ever connect with her parents again? What happened to her husband? Did he die or go to jail too? She needs to write a sequel book. Congratulations to all the survivors and good luck with your new freedom lives. You deserve much happiness. I only wish I was in better financial shape to give a big donation to your great organization. Best wishes to all. - Regina USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 at 11:19:19 (PDT) I am reading Jon Krakauer's book, "Under the Banner of Heaven", and I am simply horrified with how the people from the FLDS church are able to get away with human rights abuse as well as child abuse under the 1st amemdment's freedom of religion rights. The book made me search for answers, and that is how I found your website. I will pass the book around to as many people as I can, and I will do the same for your website. Not to take away the gravity of this complex situation, but if Jon Krakauer is telling the truth, taxpayers are currently footing the bill and supporting the pollygamists' illegal acts. Why isn't the media placing FLDS's attrocities in the spotlight? What would it take to get congress representatives to pass bills that provide protection to the various people that have been born and raised as part of this religion and don't know or have a way out? Why do the taxpayers allow the polygamists/child molesters to receive welfare? Perhaps these questions will be answered as I proceed in my reading. Thank you. Monica Cristina Pereira USA - Thursday, October 11, 2007 at 13:54:13 (PDT) After watching the Warren Jeffs trial, I am astounded that the U.S. government allows this child abuse! Abused children, pedophilia, abandoned boys, polygamy....the list could go on and on. I for one would like to help in anyway I can to end this horror. I will do anything I can to help the women and children who want to flee and the lost boys tossed out in the street. This just breaks my heart. Cari Barichello Administrator of www.justiceforjuveniles.org USA - Thursday, September 27, 2007 at 15:57:57 (PDT) I am shocked and dismayed after reading about this subject. I saw an interview on the internet with Good Morning America, with two former women from the St. George area. Sara was the first name of one. The horrors that she spoke of, still shocks me that in this country, a country where we are free, where we are fighting to save women in a far away land, that we have these SAME atrocities going on HERE! How these disgusting men believe that they can do these things to others and then do them in the name of God? our God? is just unbelievable. One day they will have to answer to Him, and until that time please, anyone and anything that can save these people, and I say people, because there are boys suffering too, please, if you have the ability to save, BE THERE. Continue your fight and quest for the right thing to be done HOPE.org Sincerely, Jean Harrison - MICHIGAN USA - Thursday, September 20, 2007 at 11:50:46 (PDT) Hi, I'm writing because I want to offer my words of support and caring. I am a book store manager and have just finished reading a copy of Carolyn Jessop's book. I was saddened to hear about all the abuse the adults and children within this community have suffered. Its a tragedy when people are taught to blindly follow and are kept from loving themselves and each other. It is my hope that more women and men are able to find a way out. I commend Ms. Jessop for fighting to protect her children and the people that have set up networks of support. It is truly a wonderful and sacred thing to help out another human being, cheers and love to you all. Sincerely, Jessie L. USA - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 at 22:06:14 (EDT) The ways of P. are strange to me because it is not my way.... But if anyone is FREE to choose if they want this way of life.. or not... then I truely belive it is a matter of civil rights. Our country was founded on freedom of religion! I saw a story about a happy family tonight and that was thier was of life, and they truely belived that this was God's will. They took a huge risk telling thier story. I belive they loved and took good care of thier children. I really do not know because it is not my life and certainly not my way of life! I am an unmarried shacked up mother of 1 in a 10 year long term and exclusive relationship. I am married to him in my heart.. some day we will be legal. My point is TOLERANCE! If young women are being abused ( in ANY situation ) than its just a shame! But its a shame for otherwise law abiding people to be persecuted for thier beliefs! I am for all religions that are for the greater good! All many trains going to the same station as far as I am concerned. It is not up to you or me to judge them.... but for human rights issues... and its all the same everywhere you look... some good.. some bad... ****Much love**** God/godess/ala what ever HELP US ALL! Amber G USA - Thursday, August 16, 2007 at 03:14:57 (PDT) It's a true horror story the things that go on in these places. I commend you on your strength and effort, not only to make a better life for yourself but you will want to help others in the same. I've seen some shows about your work and you truly are amazing. I wish all the best in your fight to help others and hope that your website and news appearance continue to educate people about what is going on. With utmost respect for you and your organization, Thank you! Pamela N. USA - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 at 17:25:03 (EDT) Hello my name is Bronwyn, I live in Western Australia, I have been reading up on polygamy after watching the tv show big love. I would just like to thank you and congratulate you on the work you are doing to free and empower boys and girls, men and women from the abuses that exist in polygamous communities. I thank god I have never been in the position these poor people find themselves and thank god that people like you are there for those that do. Keep up your excellent work, Bronwyn Young Australia - Friday, 16 June 2007 at 08:44:17 (EDT) Hello! My name is Johan and I'm from Sweden. I just want to say that organisations is doing a very good thing to stop this awful thing that is happening. Why should anyone be forced to these things. Greetings from Sweden! Johan P Sweden - Saturday, 15 June 2007 at 02:15:52 (EDT) Continue your good work. I hope one day I can be able to help. Have a nice day, Charles. PS Your website is very upsetting to visit, although I understand why. Charles Kobold USA - Friday, April 6, 2007 at 14:15:56 (EDT) Never stop, never give up, don’t ever let them get to you. This is a plague on the west that needs to be stamped out and these girls shown that marriage is more than sex and baby making, that there is love devotion and commitment. I only wish that I could do more myself. Sincerely, James A. Olsen Clinton, Utah USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 at 11:48:53 (EDT) Never stop doing what you're doing. These people need help, and you're giving it to them. Great job! Lang Canada - Friday, September 15, 2006 at 18:34:04 (EDT) I am glad I found your site. The stories on here inspired me. I was feeling very depressed and discouraged tonight, almost suicidal, because I felt that there was no way out of my despair and feelings. Reading the stories helped me realize that there was a way out, and people have gotten out of worse situations than how I am now. Thank you for putting the site up, and best of luck with your mission. Helen Davis USA - Thursday, September 14, 2006 at 21:17:43 (EDT) Hello, I must say I rarely, if ever, have been so motivated to send an email as much as i feel the need to right now. It's rare, too, that I watch CNN, but I did catch the recent panel on polygamous marriage. As angry as I was at the situation, the conditions women and children are facing, the one strength was seeing these beautiful and positive women. Even from my home and in front of my television set, I felt indebted to these women-- and especially in Sara's acknowledging abuse from a parent--for making the public aware. And it's not just segregated to the polygamous community, but to women everywhere enduring neglect, abuse and ignorance. Much respect, Jen USA - Monday, September 11, 2006 at 23:34:18 (EDT) I am outraged by the crimes committed to these innocent children. Thank You So Much for helping these children become part of a society that doesn't condone this. I am also outraged by this mainstream society, as it seems that very few people know about this horror, which means that they cannot help change it. Daniel Perkins USA - Sunday, September 3, 2006 at 23:46:17 (EDT) Thank you for your special work in setting the young girls free from polygamy. God Bless you ! Pastor W.Osborne USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 at 21:54:21 (EDT) It is so important to tell these people who are thinking of leaving that they won't go to hell. That God is a loving God whose Son died for his bride.....If they know without a doubt that God still loves them, and doesn't want them to live under bondage but have freedom in Him, they might leave sooner.......How terrible to be so afraid........I really have no mercy for those who do these horrible things in the name of God..... sincerely, cindi USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 at 13:52:39 (EDT) My deepest feelings for this poor young girl. Hopefully this group will be broken up like any other Criminal Organized Gage operation. Personally, I draw a clear line between the desires and conduct of the Adults in this group, and the victimization.....the brainwashing of the children. As to the sexual assualt of these children, Any Adult associated in any way needs to be proscecuted as any other molester or pervert would be. Lee Eakin San Jose USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 at 09:22:48 (EDT) I was amazed and horrified to read what happens in some states of the "land of the free". Surely this cannot be allowed to happen for much longer. An excellent and informative site. I hope you succeed in all you do. Good luck to you all. Margaret Hardy, Elgin, Scotland UK - Tuesday, 13 June 2006 at 00:59:10 (GMT) I watched your plight on the main BBC news last night and was touched by your commitment, I still can't quite believe that this type of abuse is so widespread in certain parts of the USA - keep up the good work I really hope you succeed. Kind regards Philip Stone London - UK UK - Friday, 12 May 2006 at 10:31:18 (GMT) I left the FLDS church 10 years ago and I went through a lot to regain my life. I was suppose to marry a older guy and I said no to it because in my heart I knew it was wrong for me. I realize now that it toke a lot of courage to say no to Rulen Jeffs and Warren Jeffs, but it was so worth it. My life has been a challenge and many times at first I wanted to go back but I didn't. I am so grateful to God for giving me a better life. When I read this web site it gives me even more courage to live life to it fullest . I often check back to see if they have captured Warren Jeffs yet. I know it will happen in God's timing. Thanks for a great web site, Ruth in PA USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 at 14:01:45 (PST) I am an ex-LDS member and was active in the Church for almost twenty years starting when I was 18. I know this is very sad state of affairs is not directly linked to the LDS Church but indirectly it is. Warren Jeffs is almost like the reincarnation of Joseph Smith in almost every possible way and the scary part is that he believes to every fiber of his being everything he says and does is right and in the name of God. His followers also believe this and will fanatically follow him and do his bidding to their death. You can see this in their nonstop work on their three new compounds, the biggest in Texas. I feel like I am seeing history being relived with the Mormons in Navoo, Illinois being led by Joseph Smith. The sad part is things will only get worst as more and more people get sucked into this. I wish I had an answer. Keep fighting the good fight against this insanity. Richard CC Rodgers USA - Saturday, March 25, 2006 at 05:20:32 (PST) Child brides and lost boys, so very sad. Opportunities for giving, I am looking for further suggestions. Jill Spangler, tomandjillbuttercup@msn.com USA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 at 03:29:16 (PST) Keep up the strong work and please know that there are many of us out there who stand behind you! Dana Swasand Wallace, ID USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 at 13:09:28 (PST) Your site is the most informative on this subject that I've found. Thank you for all the time and love you've put into it. I've been researching this horrible practice and it just amazes me that the law can't do more. I think they can but it seems that everyone that has any power to do something is running scared. If the politicians in AZ and Utah are afraid for their careers, why doesn't the federal level take over? Maybe the key is to get Laura Bush involved. She is (was) a school teacher I think and I don't think she'd like the idea of girls being taken out of school and married off early. Plus, she does have a lot of pull in the White House! Maybe you should take the fight directly to her! Good luck and keep fighting. My prayers are with you and with all the oppressed women and girls that are trapped in this position. Juli Eggers USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 at 22:03:17 (PST) I am an (almost) resident of British Columbia Canada and an American. I am completely astounded that the US and Canadian governments are doing absolutely nothing to prevent these terrible things. It's amazing that these two countries who are so vehemently anti-slavery and into human rights are content to sweep this issue under the rug and pretend it's not happening. I support the fact that SOMEONE is taking action. Please keep up the good work in helping these people and getting the message out. The value of life can be measured by how many times your soul has been deeply stirred ... Soichiro Honda L. Stevenson USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 at 6:35:28 (PST) After watching a program on a news channel I did some research on Polygamy in America and I never reliazed what was going on. I was totally shocked and heart broken about this. Its a awful horrbile life that these poor women and children are going through. lets keep praying for our bothers and sisters in this life style that God well help them with strength and courage to break free of this abuse. God bless everyone and lets spread the word about this major abuse issue in America. Robert USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 at 10:48:09 (PST) i am totally touched by this sick secret issue of/in our society. i wish i was in a posistion to take these kids in. i will pray for all of them that are out and the ones trapped in the FLDS. best wishes! melinda USA - Friday, July 22, 2005 at 23:29:54 (PST) I am one of the moderators of an online Yahoo chat group called ExMormonSpirit. Our group was created to fill what was perceived as a much-needed place for people who are leaving the Mormon Church or any of the polygamist groups affiliated with the Mormon Church to share concerns and help support one another in an environment that is safe, free from personal attack or flaming, and supportive. Some of our members have escaped from situations involving polygamy, and so I would like to invite anyone who is in similar situtations who would like to find a "shelter from the storm" to join our group. There will be people there who can identify with what you are going through. We allow no flaming, no judging of other members of the group, no personal attacks against other group members. As a result of this our group has the feel of a warm, friendly, safe family where people can discuss anything they wish and do so in a place where they do not need to worry about being hurt from someone else in the group. To join, go to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExMormonSpirit/ Curt Allred <saukkomies@yahoo.com> USA - Friday, July 15, 2005 at 13:44:12 (PST) I have worked with many families from the Colorado City/Hilldale area. While some seem happy with their lifestyle (Stay Sweet No Matter What), I can tell many of the young girls would loved to have hidden in the trunk of my car and come home with me. I would like to offer any assistance I can to your organization - financial or otherwise. Every citizen of this country, regardless of religion, should be able to make choices regarding their own destiny. Keep up your hard work, even when things are difficult. It may take a while, but I am convinced that with enough prayer, effort, and public protest, this injustice to young American children will be overcome! J. Gray <MGray@npgcable.com> Flagstaff, AZ USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 at 11:21:43 (PST) Reading about these cult and groups which hide under the banner of church, I find myself willing to open my door to these young women and men who have either by choice or by ex communication left colorado city. The government although unwillingly do have a responsibility to these children, regaurdless of thier religion. Child protective workers storm into many abusive homes and take children from these situations every day in the real america, why do they choose to ignore these childrens fate simply because of thier religion? Is this the "new racial and religious profiling" we hear so much about? We fight in distant lands terrorist who threaten our children, but we turn a blind eye to those doing it on our own soil. We need to remind ourselves, that regardless of the religion they have been tought, these children, boys and girls, are U.S. Citizens, and deserve the human rights afforded all of us in this great land. Being married willingly to an older man 20 years my senior at 18, I have grown to resent him for taking advantage of my young heart. Even though I married him, i thought i was in love after being with him since age 14. Just as hard as it was for me to accept that this was not a great thing, I fear for the children who are forced into thinking if they do not obey the orders of the elders they will die or go to hell, this fate is even more of a tragedy. It is an unhealthy state of mind for these children to be learning all that this cult teaches, yet we do nothing, ........ .. why?? Why don't we find these children homes, loving homes where they can thrive, and be children, not wives of old perverted pedifiles who hide behind a sheet of cult beliefs? I have read stories of single women losing thier children to the state for neglect because they are working two jobs to support thier children, why is this happening, and this felony of brainwashing slavery being allowed to continue? I am so discouraged............and wish i could do something.......... but for now i will pray that our country finds the interest to put a stop to this. The catholic church has acted over the claims of only a few boys, Why is LDS not acting on this abuse? BEV HUGH USA - Sunday, November 21, 2004 at 11:02:08 (PST) I was completely oblivious to the fact of what was going on in my own county let alone to girls my age and younger. The more I learn of what is going on the more i am scared for those people and want so bad to try to help them. I am a Christian but my beliefs are far from the polygamist beliefs. I want so bad for the people of that community to know that they have a choice in life and as a human they should be able to make the choice themselves as a single not the "cult" leader. Melissa <GuSoftball05@aol.com> Lake Havasu City, AZ USA - Wednesday, November 17, 2004 at 10:32:56 (PST) On a recent trip to Utah my husband, 15-month old daughter and I passed through Colorado City thinking we could stop off at the local market to stretch our legs and get some sodas. We knew very little about the community of polygamist groups there, but once we were off the main road into the community, there was NO WAY we were stopping. It was very eerie and it was all I could do to not open up the car door and save those poor women and children. Having seen the polygamist towns for myself, and later researched and read about the way of life and the FLDS, I am deeply impacted and sit and cry wondering what can be done to stop this domination and abuse. What you are doing is to be applauded and commended, with your dedication you will make a difference in the lives of those you strive to help. I will do all I can to make a donation and offer myself as a volunteer. Jenn Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 at 12:44:50 (PDT) This is such a shame. Most of our country is so concerned with Third world nations, that they forget there are still people in this country who live in these deplorable situations.It is even more shameful that they hide behind religion to do so.I wish you good luck in this fight and hope that more people become aware of this. Nicole NY USA - Monday, August 23, 2004 at 11:00:03 (PDT) I was raised in a small town in southeast Utah. I moved to So. Calif. when I was 19. I was raised in a traditional Morman family, however, I felt the control of the Male dominated society there in a very small town. You were never encouraged to become a contributing member of society!! It seemed the only expectation was to have babies. I couldn't help but notice the similarity to this fact with your news story. I have so much empathy for your cause. I was in St. George, about 6 months ago, at a hospital there, (my parents live in St. George now) There were the little innocent girls (5 of them all sitting so quiet) with their old fashioned dresses and braids, ranging in age from 13 to 16. One of the girls was very pregnant, she looked about 16. I had to really contain myself. I wanted to rescue all of those little girls, but I was feeling so helpless,frozen and overwhelmed. I feel like the hospitals in St. George could do something! It is so obvious, the child abuse factor. As of today, count me in on your team. I will contribute money, time, whatever it takes to stop the insanity!! Cynthia Medina <alcindy@sbcglobal.net> Chatsworth, CA USA - Saturday, August 07, 2004 at 10:39:39 (PDT) Hi, I've contact yall a couple times. I wish I was out in Utah helping. Out of all the causes out there, this one gets to me the most. I have tried to spread the word to everyone I come in contact with about your organization, and always include this site addy on my emails. I want to start donating as well. Please keep up the good work. I hope to be out there soon to join yall. Thank you. Nina Adams <powerwriter24@juno.com> MS USA - Thursday, August 05, 2004 at 10:44:32 (PDT) I was in a forced marriage to a man who was then a main stream Mormon when I was 13. This marriage was arranged by my mother who lied about my age. I cried and said no until he finally raped me on the 21st day after our marriage. I have had life long problems and still do,now even as a 57 year old grandmother. My hatred for him is unimaginable and my anger is killing me because I've never seemed to be able to totally get away from him. We have children and grandchildren together. These girls need help and support. This is a shame in our country,that this can still happen to a young girl who has not even really started her life yet. Zona Allgire Brunson <zona@godspost.com> Sparks, Nev USA - Saturday, June 19, 2004 at 05:01:24 (PDT) Thank you for opening my eyes to what is happening in our country. It was a pleasure sharing a row with you on the plane to Seattle last week. I hope your show went well. Heather Heather <hn2003 at vansicklefamily.com> USA - Sunday, May 09, 2004 at 22:30:29 (PDT) I commend you on what you are doing for these young girls, keep up the good work suzie Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, April 27, 2004 at 22:56:31 (PDT)

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